Wiki-mania: A guide of how to talk to a guy on the phone (A compilation of several wikis)

On the phone:

1. Before calling, think of what you can talk about. What does he like? Did you do anything with him today that you can talk about? Anything he should know or anything? You can even write down a list of topics to go through, but don't read off of them like a script, make it casual and impromptu.

2. Once you have an idea, take a few deep breaths. What do you have to lose? Seriously, think about it. Now call! Just do it!

3. When someone answers and it isn't the person, ask for the person who you want to talk to. And make sure you say something like "Hi, this is ______. May I please speak to _______?" or something like that. NEVER say your his girfriend if you've never called his house and he doesn't even know your name. Guys hate that.

4. When this person says "Hi" or "hello" do not start off with something like "Whatcha doin'?" Do start with "How are you?"Guys usually know the answer to that question. They usually answer the question of what they are doing with 'talking on the phone.' It's annoying!

5. Avoid asking questions like what color do you like, what is your favorite food.. that type of question is really common. Try to be a little innovative and interesting. Get in a conversation. Try asking him something about school ("Why do you think our school mascot is a squirrel?"), or sports ("Do you like fishing? Yah, same with my dad."), or anything interesting.

6. Find an excuse to call that person you like. Homework questions are a good one ("Hey, did you ever finish that essay in English? Oh, you never read the book? Yah, me neither.")

7.) Once you get into a conversation, there is nothing to worry about unless you somehow insult him, but that's unlikely, and easily fixed if you somehow manage to. ("What, you like lasangna? That's stupid. I mean...that's stupid that I don't like lasangna as much as you. Weird!")

8.) If you get his cell phone machine dealie, then leave a cool and goofy message. Guys LOVE that....especially when you laugh a lot in between things (actually more of a giggle!!!). But don't giggle too much...guys hate that! They think you'll have asthma or sometihng!!!


Tips

If you can't remember what to say to him then write it down on a piece of paper beforehand.

Don't call him more than 2-3 times a day.