I noticed I wasn't connecting with my brothers as much as I used to....and I realized I didn't put a lot of work into contacting them, which is probably part of the problem. So, I made extra efforts to reach out to them.
And lo, and behold, it was one of the best things I could have done.
I send ridiculous Snapchats back and forth with Tyler. I would ask Clayton about trips him and his girlfriend were taking. I asked Martin and his fiancee about their upcoming wedding. Adam and I texted back and forth about when I had a one-hit wonder punk band in high school. (Me, in a punk band!)
I am glad I got back in touch...but I also think it was good I waited.....I'm not sure that I would have been in a good position to explain to my brothers what I was trying to do with my life for the last couple years.
But now that everyone's growing up, it's a little nicer.
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