Monday, September 12, 2016

Birthday goals

So last year my birthday was disappointing.

Not because of what anyone did.  In fact, several of my friends and Alex did was really sweet and they tried to put something together for me so I enjoyed myself.  And I did....sorta!  But in the end, it felt a bit like a pity attempt.  And there's no party that's worse than a pity party.  And I don't know that everyone had such a great time.

I realized, I think, the only way that I would have a good birthday, the kind I LOVE, the kind that says 'this is worthy of good memories' is for me to be really clear about what I want to do, and invite people along to do what 'I' want..because I realized the problem was me, not other people!



This year, here's some highlights:

  • Alex got me a really, really nice present....he's improving! :)
  • I got to go to Dolly Parton with my mentor, Barry...a good deed and a great time with someone I admire
  • Played an escape game!  Was so fun!!! :)
  • I had two amazing meals....mexican on my actual birthday, and duck fat fries on Saturday
  • Went to my favourite martini place
  • Got some cute and amazing cards
  • Had laughs and saw people I loved, I felt very, very loved 
I have more laugh lines on my face, I look older and my body has more creaks, but I have more love, and life, in so many ways, keeps getting better.  And yes, having an amazing birthday party was a goal for this year (Goal #16!)  Goal clearly accomplished!

I wonder what next year will bring.  I hope it's just as good as this year!

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