I have been talking a lot lately with friends and family about people not being good with commitments. It seems to me that there are a lot of people in the world (and I include myself in this, guilty as charged, absolutely) that take advantage our your time and seem to consistenly fail to help you when you need it, or at least spend time with you when you need it.
In some ways, it's always our own fault when we rely on acquaintances and false friends. We're only setting ourselves up for failure when we rely on people we know can't be relied upon. And usually we have a pretty good sense if someone is a commitment-phobe, reliable, or comes-and-goes-with-the-weather.
Everyone in this world deserves respect, but not everyone in the world deserves your time. The most precious thing in the world we have is time. And no one should waste their time on people who don't even know the value of spending time with you.
No comments:
Post a Comment